Forgiveness, consists of the blossom remedies Mask Flower and Grace Flower

The combination of Maskflower and Grace herb raises old sorrows. You may have to cry a lot when taking this combination remedy, but this crying dissolves a lot of old grief. This combination works as one flower remedy.

Now how does this state of mind arise;
20 February 2016 I described the blog on Yarrow and 16 January 2018 I described the remedy Firethorn.
At the beginning of it all (Yarrow) is seeking recognition and popularity. And that usually leads to self-denial.
Somewhere, then, comes the moment where they feel exploited by others and aggressively shield themselves from others.
This shielding makes them fear losing the recognition and love of others and slowly but surely digs the ground out from under their feet. Afraid that they will no longer be loved, giving the guilt/minority feeling every chance again.

In training, I always give this example:
A man has been working in the office for years, doing everything for his colleagues, not married etc etc. At staff party, the coffee pot is not yet there. He is unsuspectingly asked to fetch it. The man then jumps out of his skin, goes on a terrible rampage, shouting, aggressive. Seemingly no reason at all to go out of his mind in such a way just to fetch the coffeepot, but this is where the moment breaks at which he feels exploited by others and then shields himself in a negative, aggressive manner.
In reality, it is anger that he has allowed himself to be used for years.
Because he really "only" wants to be loved and he wants to hurt absolutely no one (his desire to be recognised) and, because of the aggression he expresses, he forfeits this recognition, he comes into conscience trouble and looks for the blame again on himself.
He has a bad conscience that he acted like this, which is how the guilt arises.

Then the circle is complete, because often these people get into a vicious circle, because out of guilt they again dare not say no, let themselves be exploited again and the game starts all over again. And so you see a trail forming of Yarrow, Forgiveness, Firethorn. This "trail" is related to the bladder meridian.
Maybe take a look at why you still get cystitis every time??????

The blossom remedy Forgiveness helps with symptoms such as anger, hatred envy, jealousy,

mistrust, feelings of revenge.
Forgiveness people can constantly live with an irritating restlessness, become enraged easily and then often lose self-control.
In this state, they may even be annoyed by a fly on the wall.
They often complain about others, whom they blame for their bad mood.
In general, they always know how to find a culprit for everything, on whom they can shift responsibility for their own failures.

Forgiveness people often say of themselves: . I get angry very easily. Often I am so agitated that even small things often infuriate me
. I often get annoyed with myself, especially when someone else has persuaded me to do something I didn't really want to do
. I often get uncontrollable tantrums
. I am actually constantly dissatisfied and miserable for no reason
. I find it hard to forgive, myself and others
. I am very suspicious
. I am very jealous, if my partner is not home on time I think the worst things
. I often envy other women, they look much better and more attractive.

They often suffer - according to their temperament - from febrile and aggressive illnesses, e.g. sudden onset of fever, fire-red, burning or itchy skin rashes, allergies.
Coughing and vomiting (it makes me puke) can also be reactions of aggression or eruption of a Holly disposition.

Why does this state of mind arise now?
It is said, that hate is the negative mirror image of love.
You start delimiting yourself aggressively towards your environment.
From a chronic yes-sayer, you turn into a notorious no-sayer.
Why do you close yourself off to love? Are you sometimes afraid of love? Do you want to protect yourself from something?
Perhaps you have felt a lot for others in the past and have been so severely disappointed that you are afraid of feelings? Are you perhaps afraid of being hurt again, for the umpteenth time?

Is that what Forgiveness people mean when they say
'I find it hard to forgive, myself and others don't?'

Let us think again about the image of Yarrow.
These people cannot say no out of fellow feeling/ fear of not being loved by those around them.
When these people are disappointed - often feeling exploited - they have two options: either they take this lesson of life to heart by using their will and taking their existence into their own hands knowing where their own limits are and where the other person's limits are - or- they compensate for this weakness by blocking the feelings that hurt them.
If you are blocked in your actions because you are too sweet or because you are too angry or because you suffer from guilt you resolve this with the remedies Yarrow, Forgiveness and Firethorn.
Only by treating the negative state of mind of Yarrow will the actual basis of the destructive emotions of Forgiveness and Firethorn be cleared.
For this reason, I made the combination 3.

Madeleine Meuwessen

*Bloom remedies are no substitute for medication. Please note that in case of doubt you should always consult a doctor.