ROOS - rosaceae

ROOS

Rose people cannot take criticism and are very fond of picking on others. They often look for the negative and therefore always find a hair in the soup somewhere.
They have no sympathy for minor mistakes of others and tolerance is alien to them.
They often express this through razor-sharp humour and cynical criticism. They can become irate and even buffoonish. They like to hit below the belt! Or if someone says something to them, they reply, "Yes, but you have that too, don't you?".
This behaviour, understandably, does them no good in the long run and each time others will turn away from them more.

There are also Roos people, who do not express this but "inside" criticise everything and everyone, who is "stupid" in their eyes.
Also typical is especially the indignant reproach:" How can you!" with mouth corners pulled down.

Actually, they authoritatively defend themselves against minor mistakes of others to cover up the attention of their own failure because they do not want to admit their own imperfection.
It is their own small imperfections that afflict their vanity and pride and confound their deep-seated sense of superiority.

A Dutch saying well known to all of us:
Seeing the mote in the other person's eye, but not the beam in your own eye

This exactly characterises Rose people. Roses have thorns for a reason.

Over the years, I have noticed that Roos people belong to a minority group can belong (not necessarily always) and have had to swallow a lot of humiliation or hatred for this reason. This has made my own opinion regarding these people much milder.

Often, these people are hardly even bothered by it and are hardly or not aware of this attitude. "Others are often hypersensitive" is their credo. However, their intolerance can manifest in their own bodies so that they can start reacting extremely violently to "insignificant" trifles, which in turn can manifest as various allergies.

You see this same behaviour in children.
They like to mock and bully others. It may even give them pleasure to laugh at others and may secretly rejoice when others hurt themselves. If other children make a mistake, they even get cheerful about it. They may also be reluctant to go to school because the teacher or the other children are so "stupid".
Even when a baby brother or sister is born, for example, they may secretly pinch it under the guise of a stroke (which can be very harsh).

It seems like these children "smell" when other children have difficulty saying "no". And precisely these children (see blog Yarrow 20-02-2016 and 27-02-2016) are bullied by Roos children.
Rose children often feel unhappy because friends no longer want to play with them. Simultaneously, they quickly feel belittled by older or other dominant children.
Their cheekiness knows no bounds and does not even stop for an adult. When their mother is angry with them, they even laugh at her or mimic her. And it seems like you have absolutely no control over them and they "get the blood under their nails".
And the more irritated an adult becomes by their behaviour, the bolder these children react.

The blossom remedy Rose, together with the blossom remedy Butterfly Bush (see blog 28 January 2017) is so good for these children!

The rose is the sign of harmony, of love. Because of her thorns, she has to fend for herself in life, but also gives a lot of love, stands for true friendship. She holds within her the great secret, the secret of human happiness. When she no longer has to "prick", she is able to open up fully in friendship and love. You become more tolerant. You get more humour so the sharp humour disappears. The remedy works on your laughing muscles. You are able to openly allow new impressions from outside. You see things as they are, unbiased.

Some of the experiences of students in testing:
Makes big, heavy but pleasant, calm in action,
Gives strong energy in heart area,
Things take on their own colour. Like you can see them as they are,
More dimension comes into the picture,
Grounding very strong, boundary for too many new impressions from outside,
Awake, bright colours, growth, alert,
I want to move on, keep going, no brakes,
Glowing healing heat,
Straight back, emotions, awake, bright,
At left eye and around it strong pull

Madeleine Meuwessen

*Bloom remedies are no substitute for medication. Please note that in case of doubt you should always consult a doctor.