Day cuckoo flower - Silene dioica
The flower remedy Day Cuckoo Flower is for people who suffer from a lack of basic self-confidence. This can manifest itself in fear of failure, hardly daring to address others, blushing easily and sometimes being unable to utter a word from excitement.
Also, in everyday life, you are quick to feel even inferior to others or timid and inhibited in front of others.
You do not consider yourself capable of many things and you often have a strong sense of inferiority and a great awe of authorities.
In practice, you quickly expect failure because you doubt your own abilities, sometimes you are convinced that you really are incompetent! Obviously, this prevents you from daring to undertake new things and you admire others immensely because they have so much success, dare to do it.
Children who have trouble participating in swimming or find it exciting to go to a children's party and try to get out of it by saying they don't like it, benefit greatly from the flower remedy Day Cuckoo Flower.
For those children who at school say they don't do anything well anyway (are fearful of failure), the flower remedy also helps.
Physically, especially in children, it can manifest itself in abdominal pain above the navel: the site of lack of self-confidence. It also forms the reason why, with children, I always ask if they ever have abdominal pain and ask them to indicate the place where they feel it.
The cause of stuttering, if not caused by a shocking experience, often lies in this disposition.
The same applies to adults, of course.
If exam anxiety often torments you weeks before the actual exam and increases as the exam date approaches, it makes sense to start using this remedy even weeks before the exam.
The flower remedy Day Cuckoo Flower strengthens your self-confidence and self-awareness also helps you unfold your own personality. You come to stand with both feet on the ground. "I come out in front of myself".
The flower remedy Day Cuckoo Flower underlies many other negative emotions and is therefore connected, indirectly, to many meridians.
Madeleine Meuwessen
*Bloom remedies are no substitute for medication. Please note that in case of doubt you should always consult a doctor.